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The only people that won't be swayed by him are those that think for themselves. Those with not enough well-being (pein) to draw their own conclusions will follow him, and the mindsets he promotes, like sheep to a shepard. He might not know it, but he is leading an army of mentally unwell individuals. If he wasn't in this community, you would see no thread about "so many griefers," you wouldn't have a "griefing" problem in the game, and other people in-game would not be kill eachother for "griefing."
People who are unwell will grief. They will kill eachother, mess with eachother's progress and express their frustrations on other people. This is a huge distinction from trying to play the game. Look at what a griefer does: hides, messes with the farm, hides, is always trying to move items around, and hiding. You won't find a griefer, because they're always doing something. If you do, they look busy. If they're killing people, they're leading them off into the distance. Again, you won't see them. A true griefer will always find a way to cover their tracks, because of the inherent shame of having insecurities and mental health issues.
A griefer will accuse other people of griefing to hide their actions. People who support killing people for, "sponging" are griefers. Make no mistake. Do not fall for their (weak) manipulation. They're just going to try to lead you to do that same things.
Jason doesn't deserve to have zombies in his community.
Mirelli wrote:I’m glad you know exactly what’s happening in my head, banana! Can you tell me what I’ll have for dinner tonight too? What am I thinking right now?!
Yes, though with dinner, I might be wrong.
Doctor Steve, do you know what narcissism is? Please look it up and work on your self-confidence issues. Other people aren't a tool to make you feel better. If you think I'm going to reply just to walk into a mental trap, nope. You're not the first narcissist I've met.

Doctor Steve wrote:Doctor Steve's post.
First of all, your post has a lot of assumptions in what I'm talking about. No amount of words are going to justify making an assumption in an argument. Isn't this amateurish? For someone who knows so much about argument (again, you're being a hypocrite).
Crime and crime-fighting in real life isn't perfect. Why would it work in this game, when often, we're convinced that it's working when it's not?
Do you not think people can be sympathetic and understanding in a post? You think people turn a blind eye to other people's emotions? I can tell Pharo is mentally ill, and you're pretending I'm insulting him by pointing it out? This mindset silences many many people who have real illnesses, and shames them from speaking up about it. Illumination allows healing. Please don't be an arse.
"No amount of words", what is it that you have against words? What did words ever do to you?
Let me break it down for you. Not once have you ever responded to my arguments directly. All you have done is try to insult me by telling me that I don't know what I'm doing or that I'm an amateur. The fact that you have failed to address my talking points says to me that you have no solid argument, and when you resort to name-calling you're just reinforcing my suspicions.
I Am Pharo wrote:I Am Pharo's post.
I'm completely serious. Your actions mimic that of a depressed, anxious psychopath, and it would be healthier for everyone if you were to leave and work on yourself. I am not insulting you. I am stating my observation that I 100% believe, and know that you're not mentally stable. The correct way to act is to respect others, and express your emotions in a healthy manner. Even with this, we can see that you're not stable. It's ok to be mentally ill, because it's not something you can help. Working on yourself will allow you to get through it.
Wow.
This has got to be the trashiest thing I have ever seen.
Assume that you said this to someone who was suffering from depression. Saying "you're obviously depressed, please leave and don't come back until you're better" is the worst possible thing to say.
You do not respect people.
You're just a nasty person who thinks they are morally and intellectually superior to anyone who disagrees with you.
By their own logic, killing innocent people is griefing.
Congratulations! Killing innocent people is griefing!
But we're not talking about innocent people, we're talking about people who passively undermine the work of every other player that has ever lived in a given community.
I think it is obvious that you are intentionally misunderstanding the situation. Killing because you enjoy killing other characters is called griefing. Killing someone FOR griefing is called justice. It's not an argument about whether or not the act of killing, on its own, is good or bad. It's an argument about not if but when it is justifiable to kill someone in game.
You say that killing is unacceptable under any circumstance and that people should be allowed to do whatever they want, even to the detriment of other players, for the sake of their own 'fun'. What many of us are saying is that when someone comes along and decides to ruin the things that we were doing in-game just because they like to "have fun" or "mess around" with people, we don't like it. We try to tell you we don't like it, and for you to say "but you're not listening to the truth that it's MY fun, so I deserve to be able to do it without consequences" is ridiculous.
By the way truth is not subjective, there is no such thing as your truth or my truth there is only the truth. Truth exists whether we agree with it or not, but the truth is the same for everyone because the truth doesn't care what we want. Reality can be subjective-- your reality may be different from my reality. But truth is just there. Just like how "alternative facts" are not actually factual and are, in fact, lies.
To be perfectly clear I do not condone killing innocent players, but when a baby starts trying to pick up a bow and arrow right out of the gate I do get suspicious because 9/10 times that baby turns into a griefer. I agree that some people are a bit trigger happy and I have been murdered because someone thought I was a griefer (case of mistaken identity), but other players defended me in that situation.
If no one defends you, perhaps you were being a dick.
Still waiting on that analysis.
Edit: spelling goof.
The fundamentals of your arguments are so far off, it's like you don't even have the skill to produce results in your own "craft".
Oh? Explain. Show me where my "fundamentals" have gone "so far off", since you are the expert. Also I am interested in what you think my 'craft' is, because I know that no matter what you guess you're going to be wrong.
Do you understand the purpose of an argument?
The purpose of an argument is to actually convince someone that your view/opinion is the correct one. Arguments/debates do not uncover any truth whatsoever and they CERTAINLY don't make peace.
Just because I'm responding to him, doesn't mean I'm "falling" for some sort of manipulation.
Never said you were "falling" for anything, but you did say in your previous post that you felt that Pharo was trying to manipulate people with their words, and if you found that they seemed manipulative then you must have been manipulated by them just a little bit.
Edit: Try to use less words next time. More words doesn't make you more right. An opinion doesn't make you right either. :roll:
I will use as many words as I like, thank you. Once again, I never implied that an opinion made me right nor did I ever use "I think" statements, which would have turned my statements into opinions. I explained my stand point on the situation using concrete, real-world examples of a crime = punishment model of civilization which I am fairly confident in assuming is a global system (though some cultures' laws are crimes in other cultures). The fact of the matter is that in a civilization, which this game imitates, there are consequences to certain actions and it should be clear to you by now which things people consider to be "against the law", since I assume you have been comparing and contrasting griefer and anti-griefer posts. Basically, if you do something you know people aren't going to like, they're going to retaliate.
Also, I appreciate the fact that you made an edit to add more words to your post telling me to use less words in mine.
He's misguided and severely needs help. Mental illness isn't an argument. It's an aspect of truth you should assume no one is using as an argument, unless they're trying to harass others.
Okay, one more time, YOU don't get to decide that about Pharo just because you don't agree with how they play the game. If you had not tried to use mental illness as an argument I would have never THOUGHT you were using it as an argument. Not even an argument, but an insult, or something that would make someone reading your post think "Hihibanna says Pharo's a psychopath? Oh no, well we can't be agreeing with a psychopath!"
If you would like to take my previous post and show me where my argument falls short, I would absolutely LOVE to see your analysis. I can only assume you are the absolute expert in this, and a master wordsmith to boot.
It seems you're trying to use all of these words to manipulate people, to distract them from seeing your true stance on the matter, because neither I, nor anyone, can really see your stance.
Would you rather Pharo draw you a picture? If you feel like you're being (almost) manipulated by what Pharo is saying that means that Pharo made a good argument and a part of you knows it. I see Pharo's stance and I agree with them 100%, and I know many players who do.
What is wrong with you, Pharo? I'm not trying to be mean, but you should really see someone about that attitude.
If you haven't felt it, you are a psychopath. What is more important? That you can contribute to the game, or that someone else can have fun in the game?
All talk about the game aside, telling someone they have a serious mental illness to try to negate their argument is not only incredibly irresponsible, childish, and reinforces the taboo around mental illnesses, it demonizes those who actually live with psychopathic disorders as well. I highly doubt you're a psychologist, so you don't get to go around throwing diagnoses all willy-nilly.
no matter what argument you have, killing people in this game is not excusable.
Wrong again!
This is an online multiplayer game where you play with strangers and Jason has made it very clear that he isn't going to hold our hands when it comes to dispute resolution (fights or arguments). If you do something or are doing something that someone else doesn't like, and they try to talk it through with you, they have every right to stab your character if you don't TRY to work it out. If someone comes up to you and says "Hey can you water the berries?" when all you've done is eaten food and nothing else, and you ignore them or something, then yeah you're being a jerk and we can get you out of our city if we want. It's how the game works.
No one has ever said roleplaying is griefing. I love to roleplay in this game, it's part of the fun! What you need to remember is that this is just a game and the way people act in game does not have any bearing on who they are as people. I have a game called Mount and Blade: Warband, and through my character I have happily ridden a horse through hordes of enemies with an ax, lobbing their heads off. Does that make me a serial killer? No. Do I condone violence in real life against real people? Absolutely NOT. And sure, people can justify their griefer actions by saying something like "the real world is full of griefers" and yeah, they're right, but it also has laws and penalties for being a "griefer" too. We don't have jails in this game, only weapons, so if you grief, then you get stabbed.
The point is that you KNOW these things are frustrating and the majority of people don't like it when you do them so you CANNOT be surprised when someone comes up to your character with a knife and stabs you. You do the crime, you do the time. I don't know why this is such an abstract concept.
We're asking you to stop assuming people that do nothing are griefing, because whoever came up with "sponging" has no idea what they're talking about, and is making up excuses to kill people. And you're supporting it. And other people are supporting it. Just don't. You don't know the true short-term and long-term ramifications of assuming someone is doing nothing, and killing them. It's bad for the game, the community, our progress in the game as a whole, and, most importantly, our enjoyment of a game.
If everyone just sat around and ate food, there would be no food left. Right? Producing enough food to feed everyone takes a lot of effort, and often one person does pies or berries or stew. Why should that person spend their whole "life" toiling on making food for someone whose only purpose is to sit around eating it? If I were the stew person and I saw someone just hanging around the stew all their life eating it and doing nothing, I'd stab them.
The fun part about this game IS working. It's about building farms, farming and making food, and creating an infrastructure. Someone who plunks themselves down at a berry bush and just eats until they die is not an innocent person in this, they are griefing.
Since you seem to be confused by well-thought out arguments written in plain English (you call 'fancy poetry'), I'm going to break it down for you in a nice easy-to-read list. Please take as much time as you need to read it over, and let me know if you have any questions!
You might be a griefer if you:
- hide the tools and weapons
- sit around eating food and nothing else
- intentionally drain resources for the sake of draining resources (see also, eating all the food)
- lock all the things
- run around like a maniac as a baby (I let those babies die)
- kill all the sheep
- shear all the sheep and don't feed them ever
- kill all the women
- kill the babies by throwing them at snakes or something
I'm sure I'm missing some.
So to re-cap:
Being a fat lazy slob is griefing.
Pharo is right.
Stop trying to use mental illnesses as weapons for poorly made arguments.
Yeah, the game is broken AF right now.
You have to protect butter like the file now,
and be suspicious of people around butter.
Welcome to OneHourOneLife - Amish Hell edition.
Preach Pharo my man, preach!
add dead lambs to wet compost in order to make it composting compost? at least it would give us something to do with all the dead lambs.
-A baby sling, like a backpack or something you can stuff a baby into to carry it while you're walking around holding things.
-A stone shovel (long straight shaft + flat rock?)
-A method of finding groundwater for wells outside of building them on ponds
-Bowls can be moved with beans/sterile wool pads in them
-Dogs (hunting/protection)
Right now wolves serve no real purpose, but if we could tame them and bring them back to our towns they could protect us against bears and boars and other wolves. Perhaps there's some sort of low-level beacon that we could place that would set a certain boundary the guard dogs can't cross, like an invisible fence? The puppies could be taken from mother wolves and tied to the beacon and when they grow up the beacon's boundary is set for them?
Or something like that!
I just think it would be cool to have a hunting dog lol
Doctor Tim II!
I did not have any patients, and although I got close to getting antivenom blood for the village, I became too old to finish that quest. We should be twins someday--drop me a code if you want to hang with Doctor Steve!
I was a young boy, wanting to become a medic's apprentice.
You were Doctor Freddie, and we had an awesome life together in a big city. Doctor Freddie was Doctor Steve's mentor for a long time, and Steve buried Freddie where Freddie asked to be buried, with a lamb on his grave (if you are Freddie, you'll know why).
I found a replacement. The doctors live on.
If you are Freddie please PM me-- maybe we can be friends and do the twins thing some time!
Stay Snazzy, Dr. Freddie.
Sincerely,
Dr. Steve